WHY SHE BROKE UP WITH ME
THERE ARE SEVERAL REASONS WHY A LADY WILL BREAK UP WITH A GUY. FROM A RESEARCH I CONDUCTED WITH SOME OF MY FEMALE FRIENDS WHO WANT TO REMAIN ANONYMOUS, IT WAS OBSERVED THAT THE REASONS DIFFER FROM WOMEN TO WOMEN. THSE ARE ENUMERATED BELOW
1. when you are boring. most guys are just too boring to be with, they dont know how to make a lady laugh when they are together, find ways to make her uplifted, ladies love surprises. surprise her often,
2. when she can predict your every move, word and action.... it makes her feel you are predictable and some ladies hate this.
3. when you lack connection.. A lot of people communicate but not every one is connecting. there is a book on this aspect which i read and if you need to get it or how, you can reach me anytime i can tell you what to do. there is a saying that ' BROKEN RELATIONSHIP IS AS A RESULT OF UNSPOKEN WORDS' . Truely, unspoken words but when we say unspoken words in a relationship, we mean the right words at the right time.... women are wonderful gift of God to man, lovely and cumly tobehold. They just want to hear certain things at certain times. Women are Emotional while Men are logical.... With this in mind, you can work your way to be a ladies man or a dumping or ladies rejection specimen. Effective COMMUNICATION LEADS TO PROPER CONNECTION. once you lose this connection, the lady can turn her love away from you especially with the pressure they get from other guys out there.... its a competitive world my brother and you need to update your programming in her head and update your 'FIREWALL' in her head (software).
4. When you are not ROMANTIC. couple of times i hear ladies or people say that Nigerian men are not romantic. do you think so? please you may wish to leavfe a comment about this if truely Nigeriann men are not romantic. ladies love to be thrilled and pampered. they want you to handle them like Nuclear bomb not like an egg because may fall and break with no harm but nuclear bomb you do not want to joke with. Make them know they are important to you. once you stop doing this, you start losing her
5. Another problem is, do not start what you know you will not continue with eg
Buying flowers for a girl at the begining of your relationship
Calling her every now and then like no tomorrow
Buying her gifts season in, season out
Just to mention but a few, once you are involved in any of these, and you later stop , there will be problem. she starts thinking you no longer love her and that is the begining of your problems...Do not start what you can not finish. you are not a Finidi George.
6. This is one of the most craziest reason and i know you all or most of you will agree with me.' SEX'
i do not think i need say much about this because you all know what i mean. you must be able to please your woman BEDICALLY. when you cant, she seeks for it else where. Do not be a lazy man, do not be joke with your sexual performance. work on it, discuss or sex talk and play, all thr=ese are part of the fun in your relationship.
With these few points in my writeup, i believe you have learnt something especially the men(guys). if you have suggestions , questions or corrections, please feel free to leave a comment and it will be replied. i am here for you all, to serve you. Watch out for life stuffs in the Educational and Relationship labels of this blog. check the educational and relationship labels to know what you might read or learn from the archieve. thanks
WRITTEN BY MADUKA NNAMDI ANTHONY
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