Who Cheats more In a Relationship, Men Or Women Who Cheat The Most?
I have these articles taken from diffeent surveys, chats and sites. the topic is crazy and leads to another article or topic on why men and women cheat. it is not a one sided affairs and both species of human beings need to know ways to preventing this from happening..... cheating leads to heart break for the other person in the relationship especially the one that is committed. i asked some folks, a lady without me landing said its the men, another said both while others were men, men and men but i asked is it not with a woman that he commits this attrocity with. Women in relationship hardly talk about their boyfriends or male partner and as such it is a green light for the other guy making the move. Most times i think women are not satisfied with thier partners and because of this insatiable nature, she wants to try others and after sometime, they find out that they need go back to the one who has been the first and decide to be loyal. The guys are 'wow'. i do not know what to say but have you listened to a program on radio " ALL MEN ARE DOGS". I can not say the name of the radio station in Nigeria because am not advertising for them but if you listen to the talkshow, it is quite interesting. Relationship to me is just about those involved. What works for A may not work for B. the best is just be original in what ever you do. Read the following below and you can help us with your comments which will help in developing the next article why men and women cheat
Relationship are being broken every day so also asunder are being put into men and women that have been joined by marriages as a result of cheating. To every women, it is the guys that are mostly responsible for cheating in relationship, so also to every men, women are to be blamed for break up in their relationship as a result of cheating. The argument goes on and on and on and neither side want to accept infidelity. Could it be because of the natural cause why men and women cheat in relationship that has led to the unending of this problem?
In some research and recent survey about the issue of cheating in relationship carried out, the result of it was ok but not satisfactorily enough to properly nail who cheat the most relationship.
As for me, I still think that men cheat more than women based on the fact that I’m a man and it is easier for me to observe men closely and even talk about it with men than women but I may be wrong because from a very keen observations, women are just better off at lying and covering up their own acts and because of these they are a lot less likely to be caught. And the funny thing is that unlike men who do feel guilty that they have a loving wife at home, women hardly ever feel guilty about commit-ting themselves to someone else unless the chances of their being caught have reared their heads.
Women who indulge in indiscriminate s*x are generally seen as promiscuous. Some men just like treading on dangerous ground. They like the hide and seek that cheating entails. It excites them. Some women have such tendencies, but how many? Many men said you cannot continue eating same food everyday, so they say that love and s*x are not the same. According to a report in allafrica.com, someone said that men tend to separate love from s*x in their brains. Some men claim that they still love their partners, and all they go out to get is s*x, not love. Ever seen a woman propounding such a theory?
The bottom line is this; cheating is the result of a decision which one has enough time to make, and a man is truly strong and responsible when he can stick to one woman so also is the woman. The final decision to cheat is entirely under the individual’s control, and no one should blame his/her fall on anyone but himself or herself.
Sure, it may seem like infidelity is a guy thing. But according to research from the Archives of Sexual Behavior, women are just about as guilty of straying, and in fact, we’re cheating more than ever.
Researchers had 918 men and women fill out an online questionnaire on whether or not they’ve cheated on their partners and why they did it. The results: 19 percent of women admitted to straying outside their relationship—that’s up 5 percentage points from the National Science Foundation’s General Social Survey in 2010. Men aren’t much better: 23 percent of them reported cheating, up 4 percent since 2010.
While men still outpace women, it’s alarming to see these numbers on the rise for both sexes. According to Sheri Meyers, Psy.D., a marriage & family therapist and author of Chatting or Cheating: How to Detect Infidelity, Rebuild Love, and Affair-Proof Your Relationship, it’s not just attractive men that lure us from our relationships, but rather, it’s relationship discontent that leads us to stray. In fact, Meyers says the most common reasons for infidelity are feeling lonely and disconnected from your partner; lack of communication; love and attention deficit; boredom; a sexual disconnect; or lack of intimacy.
And it doesn’t help that a new study published in the journal Hormones and Behavior found that certain points in our cycles make us even more likely to doubt the dude we’re dating—particularly if he’s not over-the-top sexy. In the study, women were significantly more likely to find fault with their partners and feel less close to them during the high-fertility period than the low-fertility period of their cycles.
So what should you do if (or perhaps, when) the grass looks greener on the other side? Put that temptation to rest with these ways to prevent cheating
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(extract from womenshealth, Anthony adeokun, anonymous folks)