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Tuesday 23 December 2014

SEX! WHO LOVES IT MORE?

WHO LOVES IT MORE
Even if we look back to a time when women who had sex out of wedlock tended to keep quiet about it, there was no indication that women couldn't and didn't enjoy making love.
It has been observed that the Female body is built for pleasure: there are thousands of nerve endings in the female sexual organs that allow women to have multiple orgasms in the way men simply cannot.
It often appears to be the case that women like sex less than men, many of whom seem to be driven to the most reckless acts by their libido.

Why else would so many men risk their families and happiness for the sake of what is so often meaningless adulterous sex? Cliche though it is, women like sex to have some meaning, and to be an expression of intimacy.This doesn't mean women dislike sex, but they want it on dignified terms when they have the time, energy and inclination for it.
Now all this is not to say women don't like sex when the time is right. Female tend to love sex when they're geared up for it - fragrant, waxed and secure in the knowledge their underwear is decent.

We therefore find it more difficult to divorce sex from friendship or love. Women are driven by a different imperative, not by our libidos, to the extent that they're willing to make fools of themselves to satisfy men.
From survey, it was observed that Men are the ones ever openly wooing and asking women for sex in many ways. But this does not mean that men love sex more. Though they will not openly say it, women have 1001 ways of wooing and asking men for sex. They do this things more than men because action speaks louder than words.

The body of a woman is sensitive and 'emotional' than that of a man. These makes women to love, want and enjoy sex more than men. 99%.of women are pretentious: they will say no and even cry, but most of the time this means, 'Please, l need it.'
 
We've all hit rusts in our sex life. It can be tough when you hear "I'm not in the mood" or "I'm too tired" a few too many times. this is because of so many factors like in Nigeria where things are up and down, life style is rough and tedious. Both men and women can be guilty of losing interest from time to time, but the important thing is that you work to get your mojo back. You've got to know when and how to approach your partner if you want a satisfying sex life.

In an article titled : Top 10 Situations When Women Want Sex, by (askmen) Here are a few tips for (nearly) guaranteed sex. 
1. After An Argument: The concept of "make-up sex" is not a myth. A heated argument tends to get your blood boiling and your heart pumping. This has happened to me a lot of times and i kind of enjoyed the sex because my gf really knows how to put it down on the magic rod. I know it has happened to most of you out there reading this now.
2. Jealousy: I'm not talking jealousy of the psychotic kind here; I'm referring to that little twinge of insecurity that comes when another woman is putting the moves on you. After an evening of watching her man be hit on by other women, she may just want to remind you about one of the important reasons you're with her and not them. But be careful not to go out of your way to make her jealous.
3. Monthly visitor: Women often get horny when they're ovulating. So if it's been about two weeks since her last period, now is probably a good time to initiate some action -- if she hasn't beaten you to it already. 

According to a publication by huffintonpost titled: 
Sex Confessions: 13 Women Who Want Sex More Than Their Male Partners Share Their Stories

1. "I'm learning to accept that I am just going to have to be the aggressor"

2. "He bought me a vibrator so I would be happy and leave him alone" 

3. "I'm beginning to think that I will never find a partner whose sex drive is equal to mine" 

4.  "By the time I'm 35, I may never have sex again"

5. "I am not unhappy with my marriage just frustrated that I do not get any sex" 

6. "[I] feel abnormal for wanting more sex" 

7. "To some guys a plate of food on the table when they get home is just as sexy and satisfying as a blowjob" 

8. "I am that woman who wants it more" 

9. "I keep hearing that I'm 'like a dude when it comes to sex'" 

10. "When my attempts to excite him with lingerie and high heels failed, I felt ugly and worthless" 

11. "My boyfriend and I have been going to a sex therapist for about five months now and nothing has changed" 

12. "He wanted to go sightseeing and I wanted to take advantage of the huge bed" 

13. "It's a horrible place to be when your partner doesn't want to have anything to do with you sexually" 

to read more on their confessions, please click here for more info. 

From the articles written on other sites and highlighted above, it will be observed that both  parties love sex and the question that can arise now is that who enjoys sex more between the men and the women. this depends on individuals. most sex pro research conducted highlighted it to be averagely equal on both sides. 

From the guys perspective, we discovered that men show theirs when aroused and  make moves but the women have good control of their body and takes a magic hand to arouse and even click the website of the lady. For the question of who enjoys sex more, it all depends on individual hormones, tactics and how knowledgeable in the act of touch and sexuality of those involved. Hence, its difficult to say that men enjoy it more than women or vice versa. Although, men seem to enjoy it more due to the fact that ones they ejaculate, its the end. yet, we forget that women can experience multiple orgasm. From experience and study, it is dependent on factors.

Please leave a comment on what you think and remember, truth is relative. Thanks


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