These days ladies will be dressing hot and seeking
attention like they can’t wait to leave single-hood
yet, when men approach them, they suddenly
begin to ‘form’ difficult and act like they are not
available for even a lil talk. Below are some
generic responses you can expect from a typical
Nigerian babe.
LET ME THINK ABOUT IT
This perhaps is the most common response ladies
give when confronted by suitors. They will act like
they are in a hurry and seeing that the men will not
let them be, they will then tell him that they need
some time to think about it; something they really
never do. Almost always, this response is out of
protocol so that they don’t appear easy to get and
rarely because of indecision. If you know you are
going to accept a proposal, why not just say so
and get started instead of saying you wanna think
about it? Funny how ladies like wasting time.
I HAVE A BOYFRIEND
Nice. Statistics shows that there are almost two
times as many women as there are men so, when
all these ladies say they have boyfriends, you will
begin to imagine if they are saying the truth or if
they are all dating the same man. The truth is that,
so many of them just say the “I have a boyfriend”
thing just to put men off and not really because
they have one. After persistence, they usually
succumb to the proposal and forget that they ever
said they had a boyfriend.
LET’S BE FRIENDS FOR NOW
Seriously? What makes a woman think a man who
came for a relationship can suddenly be converted
and tamed with a friendship offer? Really, who
does that? The fact that the words relationship and
friendship are a rhyme doesn’t make them
synonymous. Suitors know exactly what they want
and would rarely stop until they get it. Funny
enough, after sometime, these friendship awarding
ladies will begin to seek for aid from their suitors-
turn-friend and think they have outsmarted the guy
whenever he gives them money forgetting that, no
man opens an account he is not willing to withdraw
from – the account might be a savings, current or
even fixed deposit but they always certainly
withdraw.
I AM NOT INTERESTED
More outspoken ladies prefer to spit this lines
because they see it as befitting to their status. I
mean, how on earth will he think that a pretty lady
like me is not hooked? True, a pretty lady like you
should be hooked but what if you aren’t, should
you lie about it? Pride has made so many ladies to
gradually and steadily creep into old age without
knowing. Rather than be up tight and fake
relationship, why not open up and go on a ride?
These days, things have changed and men are no
longer as patient as they use to be in days of old
because of the numerous options available to them
now. Having said that, I am not implying that the
ladies should hop on every Tom, Dick and Harry
without considering their minimum requirements
however, those minimum’s should be both very
realistic and flexible.
Source lagosconvo.com
Posted by Maduka Tony
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